Join The Queue

Hi friends,

How are you all ? I am Good.

Guess what happened today ? I was in the middle of my work and the topic “Join The Queue” popped up in my mind. After the topic came in my mind i started getting thoughts on it and couldn’t stop myself from writing on it and yes i wrote on it. I know that’s too quick but i had to. So here are my thoughts on “Join The Queue”

Let me clear my purpose first. The purpose of writing on this topic is, these days i observe that everyone is joining the already crowded Queue in the different stages of their life. May it be Education (That School is famous many go there, i will apply there too), Profession (Lot of people choose this profession as occupation, i think i will  do the same) or Personal Life (Ya people do spend weekends out of town, we will do the same).

No matter what stage of life people are in, everyone is following one another in the Queue. 

Surprisingly, sometimes people don’t even know who’s leading the Queue  or what thoughts are being carry forward by the people in the Queue. For Example: People don’t even think like, Is that the right school for me ? Do i have any interest in that particular profession or Is it necessary to go out on weekends ?  They just blindly follow it thinking that the others would be having all the idea about where they are leading and what’s the destination. They also think that just because so many people are choosing to be in this particular Queue they made a right choice by joining the Queue.

Do you know Why this happens ? 

This happens because of the predefined protocols set by the society. We are convinced with the idea that the path that is followed by so many people will surely lead us to success and if we choose a different path where we are alone than it is sure we will not succeed and that’s the reason why no one has selected that path of being alone or working alone. 

Guess What ?  

It’s a wrong thought, Do you know why ?

Because people who went alone on their own created path and didn’t give up on their dreams as well as believed in their unique ideas, were the path breakers as well as The Proud Achievers. They were the ones who did not follow predefined protocols set by the society and achieved success way beyond anyone could think.

I am not kidding. Take example of your ideal Sportsperson, Business Tycoon or any other great personality who created a difference in the society and you will surely get my point. if your ideas are unique and if you think they are worth trying please don’t ignore them. Someday you will lead people in the Queue. Dreams make us big if they are followed by actions. All the great achievers believed in their dreams and supported it with actions and now they lead the Queue.

By giving these examples i do not mean that we should never Join the Queue. I mean that We should “Join The Queue” only when we know who’s leading the Queue and what is the destination of the Queue.

So remember “Join The Queue” only when it leads you to the right place and solves your purpose for life and yes if your dreams are big and you have dreamed a different life, please go for it. It is not necessary to follow the Queue. We can always plan to lead a Queue. Believe me, nothing is more satisfying in our life than living our own dreams.

Thanking for reading it patiently,

Nirali Parikh.